IS SUPERIORITY NEEDED IN MARRIAGE?

      And these came to my mind. In marriage is there anything like "being superior"?.. In a scenario where the husband tells the wife to shut up for he the man is the head of the family while the wife says "I won't because I am your wife." The husband wants to be recognize as the head of the family so therefore the wife should do and listen to what he says only without interruption. At that point of arguments, quarrel came up, ignoring of each other and finding it hard to forgive each other. And I ask this  question "what does it mean to be the head"?. To be the head of your family means " your responsibility is higher than that of your wife". You are the head while your wife is the body of the family meaning that you can't function without her. Just take a look at you having your head as part of ur skeletal body, there is no way you can function without your body which constitute every other organs that helps you. When you try to dishonor, reject and cut off your human body, what happens to you?, you die?,  that is the same thing that happens to a man when he dishonors, rejects and cuts off his wife from having a say in their marriage. Whencomplmisunderstanding issues come up between you and your wife, already she knows that you are the head of the family. Do the best thing that can ever happen to her by listening to her because your responsibility is higher than hers and she is part of it.
       Out of the head proceeds solutions, genuine ideas, peace of mind, words that heal a broken heart, attitude of acceptance, equity and generation of love.