IF LOVE IS BLIND, THEN WHO WILL LEAD WHO?.

          It is very obvious that there is a mistake that we make when we are in love.  And what is that mistake "forgetting ourselves." Once we know that we belong to someone, we tend to lose who we are. Love is not blind, it can see. No matter how much your lover loves you it can't exceed the way you love yourself.

          Relationship is meant to build us. If love is blind that means the two of us are blind, then who can lead who?. 

Love can see your weakness and be your strength,

Love can see your failure and be your hero, 

Love can see your past and be your beautiful future.

If your boo/bae can't be any of these, it shows that you are not part of his or her life. If in your relationship, your lover doesn't help you to grow rather is busy moulding you to blend to whom and what he/she wants, then it is not a genuine, true love. He gives you blows and beatings each time you speak up for yourself concerning your choice of decision over a matter. Leaving you swollen up in pains only for him to come back later to ask for your forgiveness, lamenting on how shameful he is for beating you, preaching to you how he so much loves you, how you mean the world to him, and how leaving him will make him commit suicide. Out of the love you have for him, you forgave him. After few days, the same incident occured again. These time around is because you answered a phone call of your best friend. The two of you ended the call with "good night darling," your lover couldn't bear the words he just heard, he decided to asked you whom the caller was with a slap, unleashing your body with his belt. Only for him to found out that it was your best friend that called(whom he also knows). He began to regret and asked for your forgiveness. After all these, tomorrow you will tell me that he loves you. Haven't you heard that jealousy is a disease. Dear lover it is better to end up the relationship before the relationship ends you. I wonder the type of man who will stil be in his normal senses after being addressed as "he is my uncle's brother or he is my family friend" by his girlfriend/lover to another man who lavishes money on her. She tells you that she needs money but she can't give you lucrative ideas on how to boost your business/work, she doesn't add value to your life and personality, she doesn't give you care and attention. All she says is "gifts, money are proofs of love." They are true but don't be a foolish lover who doesn't know the destination his woman is taking him to. Without doubt there are many unmentioned negativities some people experience in their relationships which you can go on to list down.
           Let every relationship brighten and put more light in who you are. If the relationship makes you to become a stranger to yourself, then it high time you stepped out of it, because you do not belong there. The sweetness of a relationship are the  strength, trust, anchority, healing and potentials we build while being together.